By Warren Buffet, passed on to me by Nana:
Warren Buffett, in a recent interview with CNBC, offers one of the best quotes about the debt ceiling: “I could end the deficit in 5 minutes,” he told CNBC. “You just pass a law that says that anytime there is a deficit of more than 3% of GDP, all sitting members of Congress are ineligible for re-election.
The 26th amendment (granting the right to vote for 18 year-olds) took only 3 months & 8 days to be ratified! Why? Simple! The people demanded it. That was in 1971… before computers, e-mail, cell phones, etc. Of the 27 amendments to the Constitution, seven (7) took 1 year or less to become the law of the land…all because of public pressure.
So, how about this?
*Congressional Reform Act of 2011*
- No Tenure / No Pension. A Congressman collects a salary while in office and receives no pay when they are out of office.
- Congress (past, present & future) participates in Social Security. All funds in the Congressional retirement fund move to the Social Security system immediately. All future funds flow into the Social Security system, and Congress participates with the American people. It may not be used for any other purpose.
- Congress can purchase their own retirement plan, just as all Americans do.
- Congress will no longer vote themselves a pay raise. Congressional pay will rise by the lower of CPI or 3%.
- Congress loses their current health care system and participates in the same health care system as the American people.
- Congress must equally abide by all laws they impose on the American people.
- All contracts with past and present Congressmen are void effective 1/1/12. The American people did not make this contract with Congressmen. Congressmen made all these contracts for themselves.
Serving in Congress is an honor, not a career. The Founding Fathers envisioned citizen legislators, so ours should serve their term(s), then go home and back to work. If each person contacts a minimum of twenty people then it will only take three days for most people (in the U.S.) to receive the message. Maybe it is time.
A friend of a friend (isn’t that how so many stories start? But it’s truer to say a very good friend of a very good friend) died yesterday morning, walking to the bus.
A tree branch fell, and either hit him on the head, or knocked him down so he hit his head on the sidewalk.
Here’s the story, if you want the write-up. Bring Kleenex if you watch the embedded video.
If you don’t want to click through, here are the details:
- He was a personal trainer, and was walking down the street at 6:20 am, a time most of us don’t even want to be awake, let alone outside the house.
- He was 35 and in the top physical shape of his life.
- His dad died six weeks ago.
- He was killed by a tree branch.
You’re attending an annual pumpkin-carving party with your friends when one of them stands up and makes a shocking announcement. Start your story with the announcement and end with “And that’s how I got my head stuck in the pumpkin.”
“I’m pregnant,” Charlie announced, àpropos of absolutely nothing. “And I can’t keep living a lie.”
We put our carving knives down, and looked around. Charlie had been looking a bit… heavier… but we just chalked it up to her favorite time of year for treats. Part of her announcement didn’t sit right, but no one could figure out what to say next.
She looked up at me. “Well…”
“NO,” I exclaimed, with a little more emphasis than was probably necessary. “The baby isn’t Henry’s?”
She gave me a look. I felt my face redden. “No, Matt. The baby’s not Henry’s. Do you have any idea who’s it could be?”
Her implication was clear, and I realized what she was about to do.
My mind went back to that day — was it really three months ago? It felt like only yesterday. I’d spent every day trying to repress the memory, but it was too fresh, too emotionally charged. It was the first time a woman had slapped me. But Henry was my friend. So when I saw her, one weekday afternoon, out of context in a silver BMW with out-of-state tags, kissing someone who wasn’t her husband, I had to approach her. Had to let her know what I saw.
I followed that BMW to a restaurant, where I watched them get out of the car. I parked right next to “his” car and walked into a restaurant I’d never been to. This is the perfect place for an affair, I thought, with the dark interior and discreet staff. They’d already been seated by the time I went in, but I found them easily. Charlie’s back was to me, so I approached her and tapped her gently on the shoulder.
Her face was pleasant at first, and then recognition set in. “How DARE you follow me!” she said, rising. “Did HE put you up to this?” I said no, he hadn’t put me up to anything. That’s when she slapped me, and I walked out of the restaurant and back to my car.
We never spoke of that encounter. In fact, I never said anything to anyone about what I saw. I avoided her successfully even when she’d try to pull me aside, or corner me. I never let myself be alone with Charlie. To protect myself, I’d told myself. Secrets are for keeping.
And now, back to the pumpkin-carving party. My wife, Angela, was seated right next to me. Her jack-o-lantern was nearly finished, and it looked angry. She had just finished cutting the top, and quietly, without showing any emotion at all, she took the top off, and inverted the thing. Right on me. I didn’t even get to explain.
And that’s how I got my head stuck in the pumpkin.
Yesterday afternoon, I drove home feeling sad. It was a great weekend, I thought. When I walked into my apartment, it seemed to have gotten bigger. I guess that’s what happens when people leave. They create space.
Mom came on Friday afternoon, and we went shopping (at the mall, and at the grocery store), and to happy hour. Then we took a caramel making class, which was great. I peppered the guy with questions, acting every bit like the obnoxious student I am. It was dark by the time we left, and we were sugared up and exhausted at the same time.
Saturday morning, we slept in, then went to the St. Johns Farmers Market, where we bought these amazing gluten-free, pain-free cheese poofs, and we went to breakfast. Our timing was a little off, because my sister and my boyfriend arrived as we were halfway through our meal. No problem. Mom put half her breakfast in a to-go box for my sister, and they went off to get their respective hairs done. I ordered one more entrée for the boy, and relaxed with my coffee.
After a nap, we met back up with Mom and Bop, who looked all pretty and put-together, and we went to food carts, and to another grocery store, and then back home, where we attempted to make caramels with our new recipe (fail! caramel sauce, though!) and then dinner.
It was a relaxing dinner.
The next morning, Bop came over and we had breakfast. Then, she and Mom went to get her pup in SW Washington. The boy and I met up with them, and I delivered him so he could go back to his home. Bop’s car was full as she pulled out of our meeting spot, and mine was empty.
I felt a little sorry for myself as three of my favorite people drove away, but then I realized that this loneliness comes only from having such fullness for the weekend.
Following is a list of things that made me happy this weekend:
- cooking class with my mom
- naps with a boy
- two grocery stores
- one farm stand
- one farmers market
- hearing exciting news about a very close friend
- making dinner for my mom and a boy
- having family breakfast
- hearing my dad talk about how excited he is to get a puppy
- the realization that I’m not as tied to a place as I am to people
- getting foofy salt
- hearing about a guy who makes a living making caramels
- making plans for when we’ll see each other again
- realizing that won’t be too far into the future!
Now that I am mere weeks from 30, I feel qualified to offer some advice to the kids these days.
Here are 30 bits of advice in honor of my upcoming 30th birthday:
- register to vote, and vote in your hometown elections. don’t believe those who say your vote doesn’t matter. It’s one of the things that matters most.
- check the box on the back of your license that says “organ donor.”
- donate blood when the Red Cross comes to school. at least, you get a cookie, a sticker and a few minutes away from class.
- love your family. love them like crazy. you won’t get to the point where you ever regret loving them too much.
- go to college, if you can. but go to learn.
- study something you love, but also think long and hard about what you’d like to do in four years.
- job shadow to find out — or, if you really want a degree in philosophy, figure out precisely what you can do with that degree.
- learn proper grammar.
- challenge yourself to say yes more.
- don’t let yourself feel guilty about a sweet treat or some wasted time.
- know yourself, and listen to that little voice, especially when it tells you that something might be off.
- fall in love, often. let your partner see the true you.
- don’t let past heart breaks upset your future happiness.
- think long and hard before you get married. try to be part of the statistic that succeeds.
- if you get married, remember that you’re setting yourselves up as an example of what married life is like. help define that for your peers.
- don’t stay in a bad relationship just because you don’t want to be part of the failing statistic.
- keep the friends who make you laugh.
- remember that food is neither the cause nor the solution to your unhappiness.
- but booze might be both.
- work hard, and get that chip off your shoulder. just because you’re privileged doesn’t mean you’re entitled.
- try and come to terms with the fact that you won’t have it all figured out. not this year, not next year, and maybe not even this decade.
- if you think you have it all figured out, try not to be smug. that’ll come back to haunt you.
- don’t burn bridges, but at the same time, whatever you do, don’t keep someone in your life who doesn’t value you.
- especially don’t keep someone around who calls you names.
- stick to your guns on the things that really matter, and compromise on the rest.
- don’t ever wish you had someone else’s life. remember that you see only the version of that person that they wish to reveal. the truth is always more complicated, and uglier.
- listen to your instincts. they are so rarely wrong.
- say nice things. try really hard not to say mean things. we remember them both.
- compliments are free — and a sincere one goes a really long way among both strangers and friends.
- it’s okay to be scared, but you should always be doing things that scare you. move across the country. take that job. make the leap. climb the walls.
Two nights ago, I made a tuna salad for dinner. The tuna was from my friend who’s dad caught and canned it himself. That was delicious, although it was the grossest looking thing in my pantry.
I ate my tuna, cucumber, and olive salad, right out of the serving bowl, while reading a cookbook. It occurred to me that I was a caricature of myself, and was starring in an episode of the most boring television show: Single Girl Eats. To finish off the meal, I ate chocolate chips out of a ramekin.
I knew I could do better. So last night, I took some veggie broth from a soup my mom gave me, added pureed pumpkin, and made a gorgeous bowl of soup. It was bright orange, it was spiced right, and I put it in a square bowl.
Stylin’. I was happy I’d gone to the effort of making beautiful food, even when no one else was around.
After I was finished, I froze the leftovers (because wasting food is exactly like throwing $5 bills in the trash and I’d like to avoid that) and started making a dessert. Not just any dessert, butterscotch pudding (would you look at that, I forgot both the butter and the scotch).
Last week, when I asked the boy I’m completely smitten with about his favorite dessert, he said, “that butterscotch pudding we had at Irving St. Kitchen” and I know from experience that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, so making this pudding was at the top of my Thursday to-do list.
It was a labor of love, but six egg yolks and two saucepans later, I had three jars of pudding. Immediately, they went into the freezer, because I don’t know why, he’s coming on Saturday, you don’t need to freeze pudding from Thursday to Saturday you crazy person you, and a little leftover.
There wasn’t enough pudding left in the big saucepan for another serving, she typed, defensively, so I sat down at the dining room table with a saucepan, a big spoon, and a glass of red wine.
And that’s how my roommate found me. I looked up from my pan of pudding guiltily, but I didn’t stop. She said she didn’t judge me, because it smelled delicious.
Good thing I tried specifically to NOT cook like a pathetic single girl!
From this source:
A picture on your mantle unexpectedly falls and crashes to the floor. As you go to pick it up, you notice a note hidden behind the picture. The message is from the future—and written by you. It instructs you to do something important. What does it say?
I had a long day. It was 9pm, raining, and my hands were full of groceries, keys, my yoga mat, and my purse. I opened the door to my apartment and quickly set down my things, before they tumbled themselves down. I wanted to sink into the couch and get up tomorrow, but I had eggs and milk in my grocery bag. So I headed to the kitchen.
“ME–OWW,” griped the cat, using a tone that clearly indicated just how much she would have liked her dinner three hours ago. I didn’t really feel like dealing with her, but the thing about cats is that they are more selfish than 20-something girls, and I knew it would only be a matter of time before she broke something. So I got out her dish, and found a can of tuna — the real kind — and started digging for the can opener.
Clang! It was too late. Before I was able to open the tuna, Clementine had knocked a photo off my bookcase. I decided to focus on the task at hand before cleaning up her mess. As soon as I started turning the can opener’s handle, she made a beeline for me and wrapped her little orange body around my legs. She made this half purr/half meowing noise that, while a bit disconcerting, simultaneously said “I’m sorry about that picture frame,” “thank you for the treat,” and “I’ll forgive you for staying out late tonight.” I put some fish in her bowl, rinsed my hands, and headed across the room to survey the damage.
The picture that had fallen was a snapshot taken last Christmas by my dad. It was typical of the mayhem that surrounded Christmas at my parents’ house. In the frame was the turkey, the dining room table, the cat licking the turkey, my sister picking up the cat, and the two little dachshunds eagerly anticipating any turkey droppings. My dad had captured the scene beautifully: my sister looks disapproving in her teacher way (you know, the way that is trying to suppress a laugh when she’s telling her fifth graders that the joke wasn’t funny), the cat looks like a lunatic, and the dogs are excited about the whole scene.
Just looking at it made me smile. I was happy that the glass pane hadn’t broken, and I went to pick it up. That’s when I noticed the piece of paper.
It was pink, and folded into a 2″ square. It had my name on it. Hmm, I thought. That’s odd. I bent down. Sure looks like my handwriting.
The paper had a bit of age to it, like it was older than the photograph. I turned it over in my hand, trying to remember if I’d ever written something on paper like this. The paper felt… different. Not like notebook paper. I am not a paper expert, but it occurred to me that this paper might be… Japanese? It felt like fancy rice paper. I couldn’t place it anywhere.
So, I sat on the floor, and opened it.
This is a note from your future self. I know, it sounds weird, but it’s true. I put this note in that picture from Christmas 2010 so that you’d know it was me. That you’re reading a note from yourself is a leap of faith and we’re not very good at those leaps.”
I stopped. Looked around. Checked to make sure the front door was locked, and there weren’t any hidden cameras around. Clementine was in the kitchen, happily chomping away. I took a deep breath, and decided to continue.
“I wouldn’t try to mess with you if it wasn’t so important. Okay? But the future you (me) needs the current you (you) to do something tonight, (that’s October 12, 2011), the importance of which cannot be stressed enough. Follow these steps exactly as described and everything will be fine. But miss a step? Do the steps out-of-order? Honestly, I can’t tell you what will happen, but I’m not sure I’ll exist if you fail. And remember, you and I are the same person.”
I gulped. I’m not even the kind of girl who read science fiction, but this note had me, hook, line, and sinker. I would do all the steps. I couldn’t read the note fast enough:
“All right. Here’s what you do. Read each step individually, before proceeding. Finish step one before you even read step two. Do not read through this note. Do not skip to the end. Follow directions.”
That was easy enough. I’m the kind of girl who waits in the pouring rain on an empty intersection in the middle of the night if the cross walk says “DON’T WALK” — following directions would be easy.
“Step One. Pick up your cell phone. Read your most recent text message.”
I picked up my phone. It vibrated, indicating that I had a new message. It was from my friend Lucky, who said, “did you get home okay? It’s a weird night out there.”
I went back to the note. “Reply to Lucky, and tell him that you’re going out for a bit.”
So I did. “I’m going out for a bit,” I typed, making sure Auto Correct didn’t foil whatever plans my future self had for the evening.
And I went back to the note:
“Step Two. Go get your pepper spray. It’s in the kitchen. Close Clementine into the kitchen when you come back into the living room.”
Uhhhh. Well, I’d decided to go this far. Why not? So I walked to the kitchen, where, sure enough, the pepper spray was, just sitting in the utensil drawer (crazy things I do as a small single 20-something). Clementine looked up. I was tempted to pet her head, but the note just said to shut her in the kitchen. Returning to the note, I noticed my hands shaking just a bit.
“Step Three. Get into place. This is where I/you messed up the first time, so just take it nice and slow, and we’ll be okay. Turn off the lights in the living room, and hide behind the bookcase. Keep your phone with you and use it as a flashlight so you can keep reading my note. You’ll want to be ready for the intruder. I never found out who the person was, but he’s stronger than you.”
I did what I was told and then, just as I expected, I heard a noise outside. It was the sound of someone who didn’t want to be heard. From my future self’s note, I knew it was a man. I went back to the note and turned my phone on “flashlight” mode.
“He won’t knock,” I read. But I didn’t have time to keep reading. The man was trying to open my door! I put my phone in my pocket and aimed my pepper spray.
Because my hands were full when I came in, I had forgotten to bolt my door, so the intruder was able to open the door more quickly than he’d expected. He had lost his balance, and I stopped thinking, and went straight into adrenaline action. I flipped on the light switch, I shouted “FIRE,” and I sprayed. I put my index finger on the button and realized it was aerosol, so I sprayed and sprayed and he started shouting and shouting.
Finally he was down on his knees with his hand covering his face. “SHIT!” he shouted.
He was wearing a pair of women’s nylons over his head, and was dressed in black. I held my hand out with the spray and called 911. The dispatcher said that the police were nearby, and they were here in less than a minute. It seemed as if I’d impaired my intruder enough to keep him immobile during the time I had to wait.
The police arrived and unmasked the man. I’d never seen him before. He was identified as a serial rapist, who had recently been released from prison. They found a knife strapped to his ankle. One set of policemen removed him from my apartment while another set searched my home and a pair of detectives questioned me.
“I’m so lucky you were here so quickly. How were you so close?” I wanted to know. “Do you always hang out in my neighborhood?”
They looked at each other. “It’s funny you mention the word ‘lucky,’” said the tall one. “This man had Lucky’s phone. Lucky’s been missing for three days. We’ve been intercepting this perp’s location via his text messaging, and we’ve been trailing him. We knew he was coming. The better question is, why did you tell him you were going out?”
The note! It was still in the pocket of my sweatshirt. There was no way to explain it, even to myself, let alone these guys. I looked up, sheepish. “I had a hard day — I was planning on going to the grocery store to pick up a bottle of Prosecco. I’d just put my shoes on, and turned off my lights. Then I heard something.”
The explanation made sense, and now I really did want a bottle of wine. But I wasn’t about to go anywhere. So, after the officers took my statement and left, I went into the bathroom and starting running the water in the bath. As the water was filling up, I took out the note.
“I know you did the right thing. We’ll be all right. I had planned all along what I would tell you if you were successful. But I don’t think you need to know what happened the first time around. You’ll be a more trusting, wholesome person because of the way you acted tonight. I know you want a glass of bubbly but I thought I would remind you of the Brandy you have under the sink in the bathroom. You won’t hear from your future self again. Here’s my last bit of advice: If a guy named Steve asks you out on a date, say no.”
What? There was no way I had alcohol in my bathroom. That just wasn’t how I rolled. But the note had not led me astray yet, so I checked, just to see. And sure enough, there was a pint of Brandy in the back left-hand corner of my cabinet. IT was covered with a not-insignificant layer of dust, but it had never been opened, so I rinsed it off, and set it by the tub. I then went to light candles. One for Lucky. One for me. One for future me.
Once all the candles were lit, I took the aim flame to the note. The paper lit quickly, and I dropped it into the toilet and flushed it away.
What a night.
From this source:
Bucket lists seem to be all the rage. Lets turn that on its head. Write a list of 20 things you will never do. You can make this as serious or as amusing as you like.
Twenty-five Things I’ll Never Do:
- Run a marathon. Seriously. I have absolutely no wish to run long distances again. The half marathon hurt me and made me cry.
- Crack. Because crack is whack.
- Eat bugs, intentionally.
- Understand designer denim.
- Get a tattoo. I understand body art, but I can’t pick a place to live for more than a year, so I cannot be trusted to find something I know I’ll like when I’m 80.
- Apologize for taking naps.
- Apologize for spending a great deal of time in the kitchen.
- Value myself for the size of my jeans, or the dollars in my bank account. Ditto for friends and relatives. And strangers.
- Buy a luxury car.
- Hike Kilimanjaro, or do other ultra sports.
- Be the kind of person who values work over everything.
- Sugar coat things, except when making treats.
- Put up with someone who isn’t nice to the server.
- Enjoy jewelry embellished with hearts.
- Be a reality TV contestant.
- Expect life to turn out like a Hugh Grant movie.
- Get elective surgery. I’ll look my age, thank you!
- Live for too much longer without a garbage disposal.
- Master 4″ heels.
- Buy underwear at a thrift store.
- Dye my hair blue.
- Wear short shorts.
- Get a divorce.
- Two chicks at the same time (Office Space reference, for those of you who think I’m a weirdo)
And you should too!
To all of my lovely friends who are planning on getting married ever, please do not register with Sears. It seems convenient, for sure, because Sears has absolutely everything! But let’s say, for example, your friend wants to purchase something off your registry.
They go and look and try to find something great, and when they find it, they purchase it (after a quick Google search for coupon codes, ultimately saving them $7) and they think the deal is done.
Not so! Even though your friend bought a gift off your registry, that gift does not get mailed to you, even though you live a couple thousand miles away.
Now your friend actually has to go to a mall, return your gift, and then buy the darn thing again!